How Kindness Offers As A Valuable Gift To Your Soul?

Shaima Khan
3 min readSep 28, 2019

When people say being nice to someone or offering a helping hand automatically levels up our mood and leaves us with a sense of enduring inner peace, it’s not wrong until and unless you’re carrying within yourself the desire and that pure intention.

But in today’s time, it is somewhat becoming invisible or I would say we’re slightly detached from that equal emotion which could display to us or to others our ‘kind self’.

For me, “KINDNESS” is when I can serve others even (material things) and including myself with the required support ensuring collaboration of time, understanding which could ride the cycle of my inner satisfaction being displayed by my true intention and held by the very right emotion.

In today’s culture, where people are maximizing their effort to raise the level of being productive and the things to be get done somewhere in this fast forward world are foregoing the ‘kind’ version of themselves. Literally, we’ve become unaware of the fact, as success and reputation are like add ons to our external motivation, the same way having the emotion (kindness) contributes to our inner selflessness and displaying it increases our intrinsic motivation which is essential for our well being.

But the most exhilarating thing about kindness and till the limit proven helpful in extending is the value of the emotions linked with it. The acts of kindness done for or towards anybody/anything with the right emotion will be the step taken for making human bonds flourish.

One of the most important factors for keeping ‘kindness’ alive within us. I totally would say having or trying to adopt the culture which would be promoting “Emotional Intelligence”. I strongly believe that practicing emotional skills would be a vital key to unlock the way we perceive things, interact with people carrying different mindsets depicting some strong behaviors, opinions which could in some way overlaps that soft feeling that limits their kinder self.

Another part comes when we suffer from increasing complexities of our thought process and different types of reactions which are being received from our environment and as an end result it forms a part of our belief system which lays an impact on what types of behaviors we accept or reject. For enhancing your kind version, the fundamental truth you’ve to cultivate in yourself is “Acceptance”. Obviously without its presence, one isn’t able to give or extend their support and concerns for others.

I try my best to update my kinder self for others and most importantly for me in order to boost my soul and well being. Being or practicing ‘kindness’ helps me to connect with life and to be the person I ever wanted to be (serviceable to others on a deeper level not for gaining purpose). When I do things for my inner satisfaction that shows my trait as a kind person, it helps quiet and calm my mind which is essential for Conscious Learning and Consciously Living which I consider in today’s time is very much ignored as literally we all are somewhat busy chasing our dreams via completing or aiming on our goals.

My belief is along with having “Emotional Skills”, practicing and allowing yourself for “Acceptance” and “Consciously Living” are the irreplaceable facts which could help build our community mentally strong, helps us to promote our culture of ‘Giving’ and ‘Living Wisely and Purposefully’ on our parts. Taking responsibility for ourselves as well as learning to be socially responsible.

Try to achieve inner peace by doing something for others in order to build a better society and it is all going to be started through becoming a better “YOU”.

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Shaima Khan

A Content Creator and Writer, Book nerd, Startup Enthusiast, Founder of Artizone Information (www.artizone.in)